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Marketing isn't dead. But the way many businesses are doing it? That's changing fast.
Because social media was never really about social media… it's always been about people.
This session led by marketer Emma Watson explores why old-style marketing no longer works, how buying behaviour has changed and how businesses can use audience understanding, story and authenticity to create stronger connections online.
It's ideal for business owners who want their marketing to actually connect, build trust and generate results.
Why audiences are tuning out generic content
How businesses are accidentally posting to themselves instead of their audience
Why connection now matters more than perfection
How audience psychology is reshaping modern marketing
Emma is the founder of Specky & Ginge, an award-winning social media marketing agency built on the belief that businesses need more than generic posts, stock images and recycled captions to stand out from all the online noise.
With over 30 years' experience in TV, radio, storytelling and audience engagement, Emma created a business 15 years ago that does marketing differently.
Specky & Ginge is centred around honesty, humour and helping businesses communicate in a way that feels human, authentic and relevant to the people they want to reach.
Emma works with small businesses, SMEs and entrepreneurs to move away from tick-box marketing and create content that reflects who they really are, what they stand for and why their audience should care.
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Caitriona: Hello, everyone, and welcome to today's Lunch and Learn. My name is Caitriona, and I'll be your host today.
For those of you attending a Lunch and Learn for the first time, Enterprise Nation is a vibrant community platform for start-ups and small businesses.
I'm pleased to introduce Emma Watson, who is the founder of Specky and Ginge. In this session, Emma explores why old-style marketing no longer works, how buyer behaviour has changed, and how businesses can use audience understanding, story and authenticity to create stronger connections online.
If you have any questions throughout the webinar, please post them in the chat, and we'll do our best to answer them at the end of the session.
Today's webinar will be recorded, and we'll send a follow-up email with the recording and further resources later today. Over to you, Emma.
Emma: Thank you very much, and good afternoon. Happy Friday, everybody. A huge thank you to the team at Enterprise Nation for inviting me to do another Lunch and Learn for you all.
Today, I want to talk about the fact that marketing is dead, but it really isn't. I want to tell you why the old style of marketing is dead.
What I want to get through today is to help business owners like you understand why your marketing might not be landing, why generic content is not cutting it anymore, and how you can start creating a more human and audience-led style of content.
The presentation will take about 20 to 22 minutes, and then we'll have time for questions at the end.
Marketing isn't dead, but generic marketing certainly is.
Businesses are posting more content than I've ever seen before. I've been creating content for 30 years now and running my business for 15, so there is a lot of content going on. Yet many businesses are hearing tumbleweeds and crickets, and actually hearing very little from the effort they're putting in.
The reality is that marketing hasn't stopped working. People haven't stopped buying. They haven't gone anywhere. Social media hasn't stopped being useful. But people have become much better at ignoring the noise, because there is more and more noise to stand out from.
Audiences like us are probably feeling very overwhelmed. Our feeds are full. You'll have experienced it yourself if you want to know the answer to something and put it into Google, and you get a million answers.
Some are the same and some are different. But generally, that leads to you being more confused than you were before.
Our attention is very stretched, and we feel like we're being sold to a lot more than we used to be. That feels quite constant.
So the issue is not that marketing is dead. The issue is that generic marketing is no longer working.
People are not going to buy from you because you've posted another Canva graphic. This is where the shift is starting to happen, and this is what I'm going to walk you through in more detail.
People are going to buy from you because they feel like you've understood them and their pain point.
This is where a lot of businesses are getting stuck. They're creating more and more content, but what they're missing is connection. And that connection is really important. They're showing up, but nothing is landing. They're visible, but they're not memorable.
I have always said, in my whole time of banging this drum, that people buy from people. Marketing is simply a conversation. That's all it is.
So why does this matter now?
For years, businesses have been told that they just need to be consistent and keep showing up. Post three times a week. Show up on your stories. Use video. Use hashtags. Follow the trends. Keep feeding the algorithm.
Don't get me wrong, consistency is really important because you do need to keep feeding the machine. But it's almost like fuelling your body. If you don't fuel your body with the right things, eventually it stops working.
If you're posting without clarity, it just becomes noise.
A lot of business owners are doing what they're told to do. They're posting, sharing, creating and trying desperately hard to keep up. But the results aren't matching the effort.
Some of you on the call may be feeling that, and maybe that's why you're here today.
The problem isn't always lack of effort. In fact, most business owners I speak to are absolutely knackered from trying.
You're putting so much into it and not getting anything back. You become disheartened. But you're putting effort into content that maybe doesn't say enough, mean enough or connect deeply enough with your audience.
This moves me on to the biggest mistake I see businesses making: they are posting to themselves.
Businesses will often create content around what they want to say. They might use industry jargon that they understand, but the audience is thinking: you might as well be talking Swahili.
They might be focused on what their competitors are doing. Trends and algorithms are important to play along with and make work for you, but being solely focused on that is distracting.
Instead of creating content around fears, frustrations, desires, doubts and the emotional connection their audience is seeking, they post what they think they should post.
We are in a brilliant position to help our audience make a buying decision. So we need to look at a new way of marketing that addresses those things.
Businesses are often answering the question: what do my audience want to know about me?
That is a huge mistake, because it isn't about me. It isn't about you. People want to know a little bit about whether we have the experience to solve their problem, but generally, people don't care about me or you. What they care about is how you can fix their problem.
The questions your audience is asking, which are ultimately the questions you need to answer, are: can you help me? Do you understand what I'm struggling with? Can I trust you? Is this even for someone like me? Do I feel safe taking the next step?
For me, it's businesses feeling safe, nurtured and confident enough to say: here's my business, Emma. Do what you do with it.
At the end of this session, I'm going to give you a couple of exercises to do. We won't have time for me to go through them in real time with you. But after the session, when you have a few minutes, I want you to look at your last three posts and ask: were they written from your point of view or your audience's point of view?
That one question alone, and making that little shift, can really change the way your content performs. So that's a little bit of homework for later.
Why does marketing feel harder today?
I've had to really look at my own business. I've been running my business for 15 years. I'm an audience psychologist, and that's what I've done my whole career, when I worked in TV, radio and now running my own business.
My strength, and what I bring to the table with my team, is understanding what audiences want. That's where my real passion lies. But buying behaviour has changed. Marketing is in a very different place to where it was when I first started my business, particularly since the pandemic.
When I started my business, I didn't have AI or tools like Canva. All these amazing tools have enabled business owners to try and do it themselves. Whether they're doing it effectively is a completely different argument.
But those tools are there, and I need to look at how my business is set out, embrace that and help our clients do even more amazing work with the tools available to them.
Generally, I think people are more sceptical. They are more distracted. At the start of the presentation, I spoke about the overwhelm and all the noise online. I also think people are tired of polished perfection.
You see that particularly on Instagram with polished reels and people looking perfect. That is not real life. People are quicker to scroll and slower to trust us as businesses.
We don't need more content. What we need is more connection. I'm going to keep coming back to that connection throughout this presentation.
People aren't short of information. There is a barrage of it on the internet. We're actually drowning in it, and that's part of the problem.
People are seeing tips, hacks, offers, reels, ads, webinars, free downloads and limited-time-only messages every day. The pressure is bang, bang, bang.
It can feel like you're being forced to do something before you're ready, before trust has been built and before you feel you can put your problem in the hands of that business.
The content that cuts through is very rarely the loudest. Interestingly enough, it's the content that feels most relevant.
People are tending to scroll past perfection now. What stops them is something that makes them feel human.
To give you an example, imagine a social media ad or post that says: "We provide bespoke business support solutions."
It tells you what they do, but it doesn't tell you anything more than that. It doesn't delve deep.
Whereas if they said something like: "Are you at the point where you know your business needs support, but you don't know where to go? Or you're too tired to explain it to somebody again?"
That lands more because it speaks to a real feeling. That's the difference when you bring emotion and feeling into the content you're posting.
Generic content is easy to ignore. It gets to the point where it's like wallpaper. We'll touch on AI in a minute, but AI creating content means you can end up with the same content as your competitor, who is probably also using AI.
Whereas if you're thinking more about your audience's pain points, how you help and how you fix that problem, your content will stand out because you are the USP in your business.
We've all got loads of competition out there. But you are what is unique within your business. Therefore, your business isn't like anybody else's.
Generic content sounds like this: "We're passionate about helping businesses grow. Get in touch today." Why should I get in touch today? You've not given me a reason to get in touch today.
Or: "We pride ourselves on excellent service." That's great, but I need more proof because that's only your say-so at the moment.
None of these examples are terrible. This is not awful content, but it's forgettable. I want you to start creating content that is memorable. This content is fine. It's tidy. It's polite. But it doesn't make anyone feel anything.
I always say, if a friend came to you in a real state and said, "I've got a problem, I've got a problem, I've got a problem," and it stopped there, nothing would happen.
That wouldn't happen in reality. If a friend came to you in that state, your natural reaction would be: "Oh my goodness. What's happened? Tell me about it. How can I help? How can we make you feel better?"
It's exactly the same in the business world. What happens is your audience is saying, "I've got a problem, I've got a problem, I've got a problem," and we're not doing anything. We're not opening that up in the same way as we would with a friend.
Businesses are trying to sound professional, but they're accidentally removing the very thing that makes them interesting: their voice, opinion, humour, honesty, experience and humanity.
Safe content is safe to create. I get that. But it doesn't land. It just disappears, and that's what makes it risky.
I want you to think about something your clients might say behind closed doors that they wouldn't say publicly.
For my business, it might be things like: "I know I need to post, but I don't feel confident." "I feel ridiculous doing it." "I'm embarrassed that I still don't understand Instagram." "I'm scared of getting it wrong." "I don't want to look desperate." "I know my business is good, but I don't know how to talk about it."
This is where better content begins: not in the caption template, but in the real conversation.
We've spoken about AI, or IA as I've just renamed it. It has changed marketing, and it's a brilliant tool. It is certainly not a villain.
It can create captions. It can create graphics. It speeds the process up. It can give you structure. It can help you create ideas and repurpose content.
But the important thing to remember is that it cannot replicate you.
We've spent a lot of time talking about you, emotion and people buying from people. AI can't replicate that. It doesn't fully understand your identity. It doesn't build genuine trust. It doesn't understand human behaviour. And this is the problem with it.
I teach people how to use AI effectively because, as I say, it isn't the villain. But people need to use it properly.
The businesses that are going to win in marketing will combine the technology with humanity, and that's what I teach.
It is a brilliant tool. The danger is that lots of people are using it in exactly the same way, which creates exactly the same content.
Then we end up with this wallpaper of content that doesn't stand out to anybody: samey captions, more generic graphics and more beige content.
If you put generic thinking into AI, you get generic thinking out of AI, just a lot faster.
It can help you create content, and I would always encourage people to use it. But it cannot replace 100% knowing your audience.
You're the person who is out networking, meeting people, having one-to-ones and coffees, so you have that understanding. Let's not move away from that.
Most content problems aren't actually content problems. They're confidence problems, clarity problems, audience understanding problems, visibility problems and self-trust problems.
I work with amazing business owners, but they freeze the second they know they need to talk about themselves online.
They know their work inside out. That's why they're experts in their field. They care deeply. They get great results, and their clients love them.
But when it comes to posting online, they either go blank or become a watered-down version of themselves. That might resonate with you.
A content calendar doesn't always solve the problem. The issue is not always: what should I post? It is generally: what am I really trying to say? Who am I talking to? Because if you don't know who you're talking to, you might as well throw a load of spaghetti at a wall and hope it sticks.
It's often about: what do I want them to feel? What am I afraid of saying? What does my audience need to hear before they truly trust me?
Marketing is not just a visibility task. It is very much a communication task.
We need to look at what your audience really wants. It's the same as how you want to feel in any relationship in life.
You want to feel understood, reassured, connected and seen. You want to feel like you have a voice, that you're emotionally safe, that you're confident in the decisions you're making. You also want to feel clear on what you're going to do next.
Marketing is 100% psychology. It is about understanding what you have to do to make people trust you enough to buy from you.
People don't just buy on logic. They buy when something makes sense emotionally and practically.
They want to know: is this for me? Does this person understand my problem? Do I believe them? Do I trust them? Do they make me feel stupid, or do they make me feel supported? Do I feel pressured, or do I feel invited? Can I see myself working with them?
A lot of us want clients for longevity. I'm still working with clients I brought on board 15 years ago.
Quite often, it's looking at that bigger picture. Can I work with them now? Is it a safe place for me to put my trust in moving forward? Because if you're outsourcing something in your business, generally, you don't want to have to keep outsourcing it. You want to stay with that one company.
So what shift do businesses need to make? I want to give you some examples of old marketing versus new marketing.
Old marketing was almost about broadcasting. I don't mean broadcasting in a TV and radio sense. I mean broadcasting to your audience through social media. I'm selling. I'm talking at people. I'm posting for visibility only.
I'll give you a good example of posting for visibility only. It becomes obvious when you see charities or businesses jumping on a charity bandwagon.
There have been lots of workplace changes recently around sick pay and contracts since the start of April. Supporting women going through menopause in the workplace has been a very topical subject. Mental health is a very topical subject.
You see lots of businesses jumping on that bandwagon, waving that flag and championing it. But are they making those changes within the organisation? Because that's where the magic really happens.
It's not just a PR exercise. We're not posting for visibility only. We're doing it because we genuinely believe in it and we're going to make those changes. I think that's really important.
We're seeing generic captions and people chasing trends, as I've just given you an example of.
New marketing is more about conversation, connection, putting your audience first, trust building, honesty and using your personality, because you're amazing. You are 100% brilliant at what you do.
Don't be afraid to let that shine through in the right kind of way. We want useful, human content and contact.
One of the points I want to make is that social media isn't really about social media at all. It's about people.
The businesses that stand out now are not always the ones with the biggest budgets or the slickest visuals. They are the ones who understand their audience deeply.
They can say what their audience is thinking. They can name the frustration. They can reassure the doubt. They can make people feel seen before they actually try to sell anything.
I don't sell my clients' services. I never sell the services. I dig deep as an audience psychologist to find out about them, and we build a profile around them, the business and how they help. It's that which lands the sale.
When people come to me and say social media doesn't work for businesses, I wouldn't still have a business 15 years on if that were the case.
How do I help people as an audience psychologist? I help businesses understand why their marketing isn't landing, why their audiences might not be connecting and what is making them sound generic or wishy-washy.
I work with clients to help them become visible without sounding fake, braggy or egotistical. I make them sound confident and shine in their own brilliance, but in the right way, so it feels authentic and aligned with their values and who they are as a person.
I help them communicate with more clarity, honesty and personality. My business doesn't just create posts for the sake of posting.
We look at what is underneath the marketing. Who are you talking to? What do they need? What are they scared of? What are they tired of?
What do they secretly wish someone would say out loud to make it all go away? Where is your content becoming too safe, too vague or too polished?
My business is built around honesty and humour, and helping business people like you communicate more authentically. The world doesn't need more copy-and-paste marketing. It needs businesses brave enough to sound like themselves.
There's a little exercise here for you called the human content check.
Before you post something, I want you to ask: who is it really for? What are they feeling before they read it? Does it sound like something I would actually say? Is it coming from me? Is there a clear point to it? Does it help reassure, challenge or connect?
And the most important one is this: could any other business post exactly the same thing?
That last question is the killer. If any other business could post it, it needs more of you in it.
If you pick one recent post idea, run it through the human content check. This is how you start moving from generic content to more meaningful content. Not by making anything more complicated or giving you anything extra to do, but by making the shift to be more intentional.
So, the Mini Me Summer Social Reset. What do you do when your nine-year-old son comes to you and says, "Mum, give me four problems that you fix for your clients."
So I gave him four issues that we fix. We look at time, giving people time back in their day. We look at clarity, confidence and consistency, because consistency is important, but in the right way.
Then he said, "Right. I've got a really good idea, and I hope it's going to bring you some more clients. You should present a little bit every day during a week, and people will come and you'll be able to give them some help."
What he was describing was basically a boot camp or masterclass, or whatever name you want to put to it.
So we came up with a Mini Me Summer Social Reset. I said to my son, "I'm going to do this, and you're going to lead it with the marketing."
On 6 July, the Summer Social Reset starts. Every morning, I'm going to walk you through 45 minutes of something that is really going to help you. We'll do a different topic every day, Monday to Thursday. Then on the Friday, we'll pull a summer plan together.
Those of you who have children heading into the summer holidays will understand the pain of juggling keeping the kids entertained with deadlines and work.
My little boy has come up with a tip every week for the summer holidays to help parents juggle the parenting and working load. It's going to be fun, and I'm really looking forward to it.
If you're interested in knowing more, please let me know because the tickets are now available and we've got an early bird offer as well.
If you want a five-day practical reset for business owners just like you, to stop you feeling overwhelmed and help you start showing up in the right way, I can certainly tell you more about that.
I'll leave you with one final thought, because I think this is really important.
People will forget perfect, over-polished content, but they will never forget how you made them feel.
Marketing isn't dead. Social media isn't dead. Your audience hasn't disappeared.
The future of marketing isn't more noise. It's more understanding, more honesty, more humanity and more content that sounds like it came from you, with something useful to say.
If your marketing feels a bit noisy, inconsistent or disconnected, I'd love to have a chat with you. I'm always up for having a chat with people who have small businesses, because even if we don't do business together, I'm all for flying that flag and supporting one another.
Together, we can do more to support one another. Even if it's just sharing content, that is the easiest way to open our businesses up to people who have never heard of us before.
Thank you so much for inviting me to speak today. I hope that's been helpful. My contact details are on the screen. If you need to reach out to me, you can do that.
I'd be happy to take any questions.
Caitriona: Thank you so much, Emma. We had a question from Metaph.
They're asking: "I know you touched on it a bit earlier, but are there any apps or AI tools that help us with marketing, particularly for social media platforms such as Facebook, Instagram, WhatsApp and LinkedIn?"
Emma: If you're wanting to plan, I think having a content calendar of the right kind of content is really important.
Being able to schedule content through a third-party scheduler is useful, or if you're just working with Meta, you can do it within that platform.
Planning, having that content ready and scheduling it is a good thing to do. It helps to diarise when you're going to do the content for the next week or the next two weeks.
We work two weeks ahead with our clients, so we have a content plan in place. But if they come back and say, "I'm doing a Lunch and Learn tomorrow. Can we do something about that?" we can move things around. So it's about having that flexible structure.
The AI tools are out there to use. Things like Canva, LinkedIn and Facebook all have their own built-in AI options now.
I would just say that I'm all for embracing AI, but it's important to use it in the right way. Otherwise, as I said, you end up with the same beige content that everybody else has.
Scheduling really helps save time for social media. I would always recommend Hootsuite if you're not going to do it through Meta. There are tools out there that we can champion and that we work with.
Caitriona: Thank you. We're coming towards the end of the session now, but we have time for one final question. If a business could only focus on one marketing improvement over the next six months, what would you recommend?
Emma: Exactly what I've just described: having that human element.
That is what marketing is all about now. This is why people who aren't doing it are saying social media doesn't work.
And it's not just social media. I coach clients about showing up and being authentic, but that's not limited to social media. That's in networking. It covers your 60-second impact speech as well.
So if there's one thing I want you to take away, it is to focus on being you and bringing you forward. Share your opinions and values, and make sure they come through clearly in your marketing.
Like I said before with the checklist, if this could be posted by any other business, then it's not you.
If we're posting and I think another marketing agency could have posted it, then it hasn't got that Specky and Ginge wow factor. It hasn't got that feeling or the values of us as a team, or of me as a business owner. So we don't post it.
That's how you're going to stand out, because you're you. You're amazing, and you're unique. Work with that.
If there's one thing I want you to work on, that would be it. Not tools. Not the next shiny new thing. Just focus on you.
Caitriona: That's brilliant advice and a great way to wrap up the session.
Thank you so much, Emma, for your presentation. Thanks, everyone, for joining us today. We'll share the recording and further resources in a follow-up email this afternoon. Thank you.
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